Dear Special Parent,
As the parent of a child with developmental disabilities, one of your key roles is ensuring that the therapies your child engages in are effective and responsive to their evolving needs. Therapy is not a one-size-fits-all solution and must be continually assessed to ensure it remains beneficial. Recognizing when it's time to change therapies is crucial for your child's development.
Signs Your Child May Need a Change in Therapy
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Lack of Progress
If your child has not shown improvement, or if progress has stalled, it may be time to reassess the effectiveness of the current therapy. Therapy should bring about measurable changes, whether in skill development, behavior, or emotional well-being. -
Increased Frustration or Resistance
Pay attention to your child's behavior towards therapy. If they show increased resistance, distress, or frustration, it might indicate that the therapy is no longer suitable or enjoyable. -
Change in Needs
Developmental shifts or new challenges might render the current therapy ineffective. As children grow, their needs can change, which sometimes necessitates a different therapeutic approach or adjustment in goals. -
Therapist’s Feedback
Therapists often have insights into whether a therapy is beneficial. Regular communication with your child’s therapists can provide early indications that a change might be beneficial.
Steps to Take If a Change Is Needed
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Evaluate and Document
Keep detailed notes about your child’s progress and behaviors related to the therapy sessions. This documentation can help during discussions with healthcare providers about the need for change. -
Consult Professionals
Engage with your child’s healthcare team to discuss your observations and concerns. A multidisciplinary approach can help determine whether the current therapy is still the best fit. -
Consider Alternatives
Explore other therapies that might align better with your child’s current needs. Research and consult professionals about newer, evidence-supported methodologies. -
Trial and Feedback
If you decide to change therapies, consider a trial period for the new approach, and observe how your child responds. Feedback from this phase can guide further adjustments.
Conclusion
Adjusting your child’s therapy plan is a dynamic process, guided by careful observation and professional advice. Stay attuned to your child’s responses to therapy, and be proactive in seeking adjustments as needed. Remember, the ultimate goal is to support your child in their growth and development in the most effective way possible.
Adapting therapy plans is a normal part of the journey. By staying informed and responsive, you can help pave the way for your child's success and well-being. If you have specific concerns or need further guidance, consult with a developmental specialist who can provide personalized advice based on your child’s unique situation.
Dr. Kimberly
Dr. Kimberly Idoko
Certified Special Parent Coach
Dr. Kimberly is the mother and fierce advocate of Aiden and Lexi; Lexi is developmentally disabled by Rett Syndrome. Dr. Kimberly is a board-certified neurologist in clinical practice for more than 15 years; she is also a children’s rights attorney — the former director of healthcare advocacy at a Los Angeles-based legal agency. She is Yale College, Penn Medicine, Columbia Business, and Stanford Law trained.
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